A relationship between two people usually consists of the yin and the yang. When we don’t see eye to eye with our respective other, whether it be with a partner, friend, family or co worker, it is quite common that we throw in the old saying ‘opposites attract’ and be done with it. We think of opposites attract, what does it really tell us?
Opposites, or perhaps more accurately, “complements” do attract. Introverts and extroverts, morning people and night people, impulsives and planners, steady plodders and adrenaline junkies, adventure-grabbers and security-seekers
The French view the old saying ‘opposites attract’ as ‘Vive La Difference’ in which we don’t just use the word ‘opposites attract’ as a bandaid but rather we celebrate those differences.
It is important during hard times in a relationship to write down the differences you are having, once you have written them down, discuss them and then find a way to celebrate them.
Remember, we need to love and continuously send out good vibes to our world and our lovers.
Who’s going to be next on your list to celebrate Vive La Difference?